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Elaine Nelson McIver
In Memory Of

Elaine Nelson McIver

8/12/1938 - 8/29/2026

Details

Visitation Date
09/04/2026
Visitation Time
10:00 AM – 11:15 AM
Visitation Location
Bunker Garden Chapel
33 North Centennial Way, Mesa, AZ, 85201
Funeral Date
09/04/2026
Funeral Time
11:30 AM – 12:30 PM
Funeral Location
Bunker Garden Chapel
33 North Centennial Way, Mesa, AZ, 85201

About Elaine Nelson McIver

Elaine Nelson McIver, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away leaving behind a beautiful legacy of love, faith, and family. She was born on August 12, 1938, in Boulder City, NV, to her loving parents, Herman Evans Nelson and Thora Jane Mickelson Nelson.

On September 12, 1958, Elaine married the love of her life, Walter Anderson McIver. Together, they built a bustling, joyful home and were blessed with eight children. Elaine dedicated her life to raising her family, pouring her heart into making their house a true home. She had a special gift for making holidays magical, striving to make every birthday and Christmas an amazing and memorable experience for her children.

A woman of immense creativity and many talents, Elaine was incredibly crafty. She poured her artistic spirit into sewing, embroidery, painting, and creating intricate miniatures. She loved playing games, going to movies and chatting with friends. Her family will also fondly remember the aroma and taste of her amazing, home-baked whole wheat bread.

Elaine was a faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She had a profound love for genealogy, dedicating countless hours to family history work and generously sharing her knowledge by teaching genealogy classes for her church community.

Elaine was preceded in death by her parents Herman and Thora, her husband Walt and her son Michael.Elaine is survived by her dear siblings, Phyllis Barber, Stephen Nelson (Linda), and Kathy Gold (Brent). Her legacy of love lives on through her children and her many grandchildren: David McIver (wife Patty, and sons Brad and Jake); Gregory McIver (wife April, and children Nicole, James, Cara, Anna, and Josh); Julie Storey (husband Gary, and children Kristin, Megan, Brandon, and Jason); Lisa Jones (husband Dan, and children Trevor, Kayla, and Alyssa); Laurie Ahlers (husband Robert, and sons Logan and Zack); Alison McIver (husband Joe, and sons Quinn and Max); Michael McIver; and Matt McIver (children Kennedy and Mason), along with her seven great grandchildren with one more on the way.

We welcome all who knew and loved Elaine to join us in remembering and celebrating her life.

Arrangements by Bunker’s Garden Chapel, www.bunkerfuneral.com. Should this obituary appear anywhere but bunkerfuneral.com, please check our website for accurate details and service information.

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6 comments
Sally Gunnell
6 days, 17 hours ago
Saddened to hear the passing of a deer, old friend. I loved the time we rubbed shoulders together when our families were growing up. Love to all of the family at this time of her passing.
Kay Chapman
1 week, 1 day ago
Walt and Elaine lived in the 11th/Udall Ward. I was her Visiting Teacher for many years! I love Elaine! She was such a beautiful Sister. Her home was beautifully decorated with so much talent and love! May the Lord bless your family! Love you!
The Dale Vance Family
1 week, 2 days ago
We want to send our love & condolences to the McIver family. We enjoyed them as neighbors across the street. We remember Brother & Sister McIver & their eight kids. Such a great family & a big part of our ward, very active & involved. Elaine was such a beautiful & talented person, always serving others, and sharing those talents with everyone around her. Thanks for the memories on 9th Street. May the Lord bless you all! Lynette, Pam, and Michelle
Imelda
1 week, 3 days ago
My condolences beautiful family God Bless you
Moses Kubai
1 week, 3 days ago
She was a great lady,with a beautiful soul. May her soul rest in eternal peace.
Marlie Reed
1 week, 3 days ago
I have cherished memories of visiting Arizona for Thanksgiving as a child and sharing our meal with the McIvers. Elaine was so warm and kind—and she made amazing food! She was a wonderful aunt who always made me feel loved in her presence. She was an amazing example in so many regards and also happened to be extremely witty! I’m thankful for my memories and send my deepest condolences.