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In Loving Memory
David Grant Allen, Jr.

David Grant Allen, Jr.

6/11/1939  —  8/27/2026


Bunker Family Funerals

A Life Remembered

Obituary

David Grant Allen, Jr., a devoted husband, father, grandfather, craftsman, cowboy, and man of quiet faith, passed away peacefully at his home in Mesa (Lehi), Arizona, on August 27, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family. He was 87 years old.

He was born June 11, 1939, in Mesa, Arizona, to David Grant Allen, Sr., and Norene Watkins. The third generation of his family born in Mesa, he was deeply proud of his pioneer heritage. His ancestors were early settlers of the Lehi and Mesa areas, and he treasured the stories of their faith, sacrifice, hard work, and perseverance.

Dave's childhood was not always easy. His parents divorced when he was young, and his mother's remarriage meant frequent moves throughout the West. He lived in several communities and experienced a variety of schools and circumstances before eventually making his way back to Mesa as a teenager. The challenges of those early years helped shape the qualities that would define his life: independence, resilience, resourcefulness, and a determination to build a stable and loving family of his own.

In 1957, shortly after graduating from Mesa High School, Dave met Barbara Jane Hathcock at a Mesa High football game. They quickly fell in love and eloped to Silver City, New Mexico, on June 23, 1958. They were later sealed for time and eternity in the Mesa Arizona Temple. Their marriage has lasted more than 68 years and has been the foundation of a remarkable posterity.

Together, Dave and Barbara raised five children: Shirley, Shelly, Clay, Leslie, and Daryl. They also cherished the memory of their daughter Judi Lynn, who died as an infant. Dave was a devoted father who taught his children largely by example. He believed in hard work, honesty, personal responsibility, perseverance, and taking care of one another. He was there for his children's many events, and they knew they could count on him.

Dave spent most of his working life in Arizona's concrete and construction industries. He worked in various roles, including heavy-equipment operator, batch operator, and plant manager and superintendent for the Tanner Companies (later United Metro), among other employers. He took great pride in doing his work well and was known for his skill with heavy equipment. Even after retiring, he continued doing grading and tractor work for friends, neighbors, and others. His reputation for doing things right meant that he stayed very busy.

He loved working with his hands and had a remarkable ability to fix, build, and improve things. In later years, that talent took an unexpected artistic turn. After creating his first small sculpture from horseshoe nails, Dave began making intricate Western-themed sculptures of horses, cattle, cowboys, wagons, and other scenes. He made hundreds of them, giving many away to family and friends.

Dave also had a lifelong love of horses, rodeo, hunting, and the outdoors. He competed in calf roping and team roping, organized community rodeos, raised horses and cattle, and enjoyed countless adventures in the Arizona and Utah mountains with family and friends.

His faith was an important part of Dave's life. A lifelong member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he served in several Church callings and, with Barbara, served as a service missionary at the Humanitarian Center in Mesa. He loved the temple and the example of temples covenants set by his grandparents, aunts and uncles, and pioneer ancestors. Dave was not one to speak at length about his faith. Instead, he lived it through his honesty, hard work, service, devotion to his family, and quiet reliance on prayer.

Perhaps the greatest measure of Dave's life is the family he and Barbara built together. He leaves behind his beloved wife, Barbara Jane Allen; children Shirley Rae Penrod (Robert), Shelly Kay Allen, Clayton David Allen (Christina), Leslie Diane Kelley (Kenneth), and Daryl Warren Allen (Amy); 21 grandchildren; 37 great-grandchildren; and sister Rebecca (Rogers) Ohlau. He was preceded in death by his infant daughter, Judi Lynn Allen; his father David Grant Allen, Sr.; mother Norene (Watkins) Rogers; and sister, Joyce Norene DeYoung.

Dave's life was not defined by wealth, titles, or public recognition. It was defined by something quieter and, in the end, far more enduring. He showed up. He worked hard. He kept his word. He took care of his family. He served his community. He loved God. And he left the world — and especially his family — better because he had been here. His family will miss his steady presence, his stories, his humor, his willingness to lend a hand, and the unmistakable feeling that if Dad was around, things would somehow be okay.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, September 12, 2026, at 11:00 AM at the Lehi Ward Building, 830 E. Lehi Rd., Mesa, Arizona, with visitation preceding the service from 10:00 AM to 10:45 AM. Interment at the Mesa City Cemetery will take place that morning before the visitation and funeral. To view the funeral service LIVE, please visit https://zoom.us/j/94106166071

In lieu of flowers, the family invites friends and loved ones to honor Dave's memory by serving others, working hard, keeping their word, and taking good care of their families — things he spent his life teaching by example.

Arrangements by Bunker’s Garden Chapel, www.bunkerfuneral.com. Should this obituary appear anywhere but bunkerfuneral.com, please check our website for accurate details and service information.

Service Details

Gatherings in remembrance

Visitation

Saturday, September 12, 2026 · 10:00 AM – 10:45 AM

The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints
Lehi / Horne Ward

Funeral

Saturday, September 12, 2026 · 11:00 AM

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Lehi / Horne Ward

Messages of Love

From family and friends

Keith Nichols September 12, 2026
I always liked and respected Dave Allen because he was always such a kind gentleman and very soft spoken. He once told me a story about my grandpa Nichols and how he helped him round up cattle up on the 10 X ranch by the Grand Canyon and he told me that my grandpa came out of Mexico and drove 100 horses and that was history that I had never heard before and I will always remember that Dave was always kind and easy to talk to and I like that most about him
Vicki Rainbow September 6, 2026
Barbara, I was so sorry to hear about Dave’s passing. As I read the obituary, I thought it described him so well. Praying for you, and all who loved him. I know he will be missed. Vicki (Kentucky)
Daryl & Mary Helen Hatch September 2, 2026
We remember. Being young marrieds together. Love all the good memories of those great years!! MH
Jane (Hathcock) Garvin September 1, 2026
To the Allen family…. So sorry for your loss. Your Dad was and is a good man. I pray you will all be comforted at this time. 🌻 ♥️Your cousin, Jane Garvin

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