It is with deep sorrow and much love that we mourn the passing of Patrick John Sadecki, who left us on January 28, 2025, at the age of 57, due to complications from Hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis (HLH). Patrick was a cherished husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend.
Patrick “Pat” was born to Norbert and Louise Tajdus Sadecki on April 20, 1967, in Chicago, Illinois. They moved to Santa Barbara, CA when Pat was a year and a half. He graduated high school in 1985 from San Marcos High School in Santa Barbara, CA. Pat became a Hot Shot in Santa Barbara right after high school and moved to the County Roads Department where he operated heavy equipment. He then continued his career working for the Santa Barbara County Public Works department where he retired in 2017 after 32 years of service with the County.
Pat met the love of his life, Kelley Cox in 1994 and they married in 1997. Their union was blessed with Pat’s loving son Kevan Sadecki, from a previous marriage to Sheri Jackson in 1989. Pat and Kelley shared a wonderful daughter together, Hayley Sadecki, who was born in 1999, and they lived in Santa Ynez until 2023. Pat and Kelley then moved to Gold Canyon, AZ to live out their retirement. As a father, Pat was a guiding light, instilling in his children the values of integrity, perseverance, and kindness. His love for his family was boundless, and he cherished every moment spent with them. Pat’s love for life extended beyond his professional and family commitments. He loved hunting, fishing, Nascar, shooting and baseball. Go Dodgers! He also never missed an episode of Columbo! Pat and Kelley’s favorite vacation spot was Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, where they created many memories at their Time Share enjoying the pool, beach, food, staff, friends and especially the sunrises with Pat always holding his “can of coffee”.
Those who knew Pat will remember him for his contagious smile, boundless generosity, warm spirit, and unwavering support. He was a pillar of his community, always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need. He was a 23-year member of the Santa Ynez Valley Elks Lodge #2640 and two-time Past Exalted Ruler. He was also a Gold Cupper with the Vikings of Solvang and a loyal contributor to Santa Ynez Youth Recreation and the Santa Barbara County Farm Bureau. His legacy of kindness and compassion will forever remain in the hearts of those he touched.
He is survived by his beloved wife Kelley; his children Kevan of Phoenix, AZ and Hayley of Cameron Park, CA; his grandson Wyatt Sadecki of Talala, OK; his sister Elizabeth Sadecki (John Masonovich) of Belt, MT.; his brother David Sadecki (Jo Ellen) of Santa Barbara, CA; his nieces and nephews Bryan Parker (Michael), Jim Parker (Carisa ), Ian Sadecki (Shannon), Brooke Jackson (Ken), Bonus stepsons Frank and Dustin Meza, and many friends. He was preceded in death by his parents Norbert and Louise Tajdus Sadecki.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, March 29, 2025, at 12:00pm at the Santa Ynez Equestrian Center Facility located at 195 N. Refugio Road in Santa Ynez, CA. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Pat’s honor to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation (t2t.org), Hospice of the Valley (hov.org) or the Santa Ynez Valley Elks Lodge #2640 charities.
Patrick Sadecki’s memory will live on through the many lives he touched. As we bid farewell to a remarkable man, we find solace in knowing that his spirit will forever be with us, guiding us with the same love and wisdom he so generously shared during his lifetime.
Psalm 73:26 – “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
Rest in peace, Pat. You will be deeply missed.
Arrangements by Bunker’s Garden Chapel, www.bunkerfuneral.com. Should this obituary appear anywhere but bunkerfuneral.com, please check our website for accurate details and service information.
My condolences on the loss of your family member.